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@@ -34,27 +34,61 @@ If the rider is indecisive or tired,<br />the elephant will do as it likes. |
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If the elephant gets scared,<br />it will not obey the rider. |
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### Ego depletion |
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- capacity, depleting, replenishing, growing |
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- making decisions (big or small) is tiring |
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- everyone has some operational capacity <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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- when the capacity is depleted, we let the emotional side take over <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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#### Replenishing the capacity |
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- allows us to avoid the depletion |
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- needs to be done in advance<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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- take breaks<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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- do simple manual activities<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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- improve your mood<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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#### Growing the capacity |
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### Emotional aversion |
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- it is possible to increase our capacity |
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- by building positive habits<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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- by lowering an emotional aversion<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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- lowering the barrier |
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#### Emotional aversion |
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- some activities appear daunting right away: |
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- demanding lots of effort<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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- ambiguous; many unknowns<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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- uncomfortable or even painful<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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- this creates an emotional barrier<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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- lowering the barrier makes an activity approachable<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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The **rider** must plan around the **elephant's** needs |
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to make good progress on their journey |
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without being thrown into a ditch. |
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### TOOL: Habit tracker |
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Define positive habits |
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track them daily. |
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and track them daily. |
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@@ -71,11 +105,21 @@ track them daily. |
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### My Habits |
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1. Get up early<!-- .element: class="fragment" data-fragment-index="1" --> |
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- before 4:45 daily<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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- no exceptions<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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2. Gym workout<!-- .element: class="fragment" data-fragment-index="2" --> |
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- at least 10 minutes daily<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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- right after waking up<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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3. Personal Work session<!-- .element: class="fragment" data-fragment-index="3" --> |
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- at least 1 hour daily<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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- right after the gym<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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### TOOL: ToDo Today |
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