## Discipline
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When your rationality wants one thing
but your emotions do something else.
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### Elephant Rider
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- metaphor describing our internal interactions
- elephant = emotional side
- rider = rational side
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The **rider** is tiny but intelligent,
holding the reigns and choosing the right path.
The **elephant** is huge but simple,
with a mind of its own.
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Most of the time, the elephant let's the rider lead the way.
But at 6 tons it won't be bossed around!
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If the rider is indecisive or tired,
the elephant will do as it likes.
If the elephant gets scared,
it will not obey the rider.
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### Ego depletion
- making decisions (big or small) is tiring
- everyone has some operational capacity
- when the capacity is depleted, we let the emotional side take over
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#### Replenishing the capacity
- allows us to avoid the depletion
- needs to be done in advance
- take breaks
- do simple manual activities
- improve your mood
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#### Growing the capacity
- it is possible to increase our capacity
- by building positive habits
- by lowering an emotional aversion
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#### Emotional aversion
- some activities appear daunting right away:
- demanding lots of effort
- ambiguous; many unknowns
- uncomfortable or even painful
- this creates an emotional barrier
- lowering the barrier makes an activity approachable
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The **rider** must plan around the **elephant's** needs
to make good progress on their journey
without being thrown into a ditch.
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### TOOL: Habit tracker
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Define positive habits
and track them daily.
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| Habit | Workout | Alcohol | Coding |
| ------|---------|---------|------- |
| Target| > 10 min| < 0,5 l |> 30 min|
| 1. | 🟢 20 | 🟢 0 | 🔴 15 |
| 2. | 🔴 5 | 🔴 1 | 🔴 10 |
| 3. | 🔴 0 | 🟢 0,2 | 🔴 25 |
| 4. | 🟢 13 | 🟢 0,2 | 🟢 35 |
| 5. | 🟢 12 | 🟢 0 | 🟢 45 |
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### My Habits
1. Get up early
- before 4:45 daily
- no exceptions
2. Gym workout
- at least 10 minutes daily
- right after waking up
3. Personal Work session
- at least 1 hour daily
- right after the gym
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#### Gym sessions tracker
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#### One page per week
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#### 100 weeks in a row
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### TOOL: ToDo Today
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#### What is it?
- list of prioritized, time-boxed tasks
- prepared the previous day
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#### Why does it work?
- avoids decision paralysis
- trimmed down daily list is manageable
- big tasks split into small ones
- the elephant doesn't get scared
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##### Important task first
- something you *want* or *need* to complete
- consistent daily progress
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#### My ToDo tracker
Collection of markdown text files
that are easy to edit (Joplin).
```markdown
# 2025-04-16
- done task A
- 🚧 🚧 WIP 🚧 🚧
- pending task B
# TOMORROW
- some task C
# LATER
- other task D
```
During the day:
🚧 🚧 WIP 🚧 🚧 line moves,
showing what is done
and what comes next.
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#### My ToDo tracker
```markdown
# 2025-04-17
- 🚧 🚧 WIP 🚧 🚧
- some task C
- other task D
# TOMORROW
# LATER
- yet another task E
```
At the end of the day:
1. TODAY entries move to an archive
2. TOMORROW is formed, becomes TODAY
3. Job well done!
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### TOOL: Daily Heroism
[Philip Zimbardo]
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Take a small step out of your comfort zone.
Daily.
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#### Why?
- grows your ability to **act**, step out of the crowd
- supports fulfilling your vision and maintaining discipline
It makes the elephant jump before it realizes
the hole is too deep for comfort.
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### My Heroism
Game of smalltalk
- chat up random people
- do it before you rationalize and back out