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## Left out for brevity | |||
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--- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
*Leaders Eat Last* | |||
by Simon Sinek | |||
<img data-src="slides/books/leaders.jpg" alt="Book cover" class="r-stretch" /> | |||
--- | |||
#### Arousal addiction | |||
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Addiction to new, stronger stimuli. <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
e.g. by setting bigger and bigger goals. <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
--- | |||
## Discipline | |||
--- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" data-background="slides/daily_heroism.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.5" --> | |||
### TOOL: Daily Heroism <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" --> | |||
[Philip Zimbardo] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" --> | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" data-background="slides/daily_heroism.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" --> | |||
Take a small step out of your comfort zone. | |||
Daily. | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" data-background="slides/daily_heroism.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" --> | |||
#### Why? | |||
- grows your ability to **act**, step out of the crowd | |||
- supports fulfilling your vision and maintaining discipline | |||
It makes the elephant jump before it realizes<br/> the hole is too deep for comfort. | |||
<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
### My Heroism | |||
Game of smalltalk | |||
- chat up random people<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- do it before you rationalize a reason to back out<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
--- | |||
### Real world | |||
is complex and ever-changing. | |||
### Mental model <!-- .element: class="fragment" data-fragment-index="2" --> | |||
is our understanding of the world and its rules. <!-- .element: class="fragment" data-fragment-index="2" --> | |||
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Mental models have varying levels of *objectivity*, | |||
i.e. how much they correspond to reality. |
@@ -139,30 +139,37 @@ and track them daily. | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
### My Tracking | |||
### My Tracking Example | |||
- Gym sessions tracker<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- A4 sheet per week<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- table of exercises for tracking effort<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- Work session log<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- digital journal<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- one line per day of what I worked on<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- brief and simple, use of keywords<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
Once a habit is firmly established, I drop the tracking.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
#### Gym sessions<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- A4 sheet per week, daily tracking<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- table of exercises + time and effort<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
#### Gym sessions tracker | |||
#### Book of workouts | |||
<img src="slides/habit_tracker_book.jpg" alt="Book" class="r-stretch"> | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
#### One page per week | |||
<img src="slides/habit_tracker_page.jpg" alt="Book" class="r-stretch"> | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" data-background-image="slides/habit_tracker_100.jpg" --> | |||
#### 100 weeks in a row<br/>(1.92 years) <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" --> | |||
-V- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
### My Observations | |||
- helped me to build a habit | |||
- kept me accountable | |||
- lowering barriers for entry is key | |||
- predefined plan = less decision making | |||
- always have a few sheets in stock | |||
--- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" data-background="slides/todo_today.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.4" --> | |||
### TOOL: ToDo Today <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" --> | |||
@@ -252,32 +259,3 @@ At the end of the day: | |||
1. TODAY entries move to an archive | |||
2. TOMORROW is formed, becomes TODAY | |||
3. Job well done! | |||
--- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" data-background="slides/daily_heroism.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.5" --> | |||
### TOOL: Daily Heroism <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" --> | |||
[Philip Zimbardo] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" --> | |||
-V- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" data-background="slides/daily_heroism.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" --> | |||
Take a small step out of your comfort zone. | |||
Daily. | |||
-V- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" data-background="slides/daily_heroism.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" --> | |||
#### Why? | |||
- grows your ability to **act**, step out of the crowd | |||
- supports fulfilling your vision and maintaining discipline | |||
It makes the elephant jump before it realizes<br/> the hole is too deep for comfort. | |||
<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
-V- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
### My Heroism | |||
Game of smalltalk | |||
- chat up random people<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- do it before you rationalize a reason to back out<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
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### Expanding potential | |||
Modern world brought us... <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
Never before in history did we have so much... <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- safety, stability, life expectancy <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- freedom, opportunity <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- safety, stability, long life <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- freedom, opportunities <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- accessible information, knowledge <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
...and **so many options** to choose from! | |||
@@ -283,12 +281,3 @@ by Martin Seligman | |||
by Leo Babauta | |||
<img data-src="slides/books/focus.jpg" alt="Book cover" class="r-stretch" /> | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
*Leaders Eat Last* | |||
by Simon Sinek | |||
<img data-src="slides/books/leaders.jpg" alt="Book cover" class="r-stretch" /> |
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<!-- .slide: data-background-image="slides/goal_based_motivation.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" --> | |||
**Pros:** it works! | |||
**Pros:** | |||
- it works!<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
**Cons:** it causes us damage,<br />it is not sustainable | |||
**Cons:** | |||
- it causes us damage,<br />it is not sustainable | |||
<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
Joy fades, requiring more demanding goals. <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
@@ -87,6 +89,17 @@ And it feels good.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
--- | |||
### Personal vision | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-image="slides/group_vision.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" --> | |||
How we'd like to spend our limited time.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- activities we'd like to be doing<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- milestones we'd like to pass<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- journey-based internal motivation<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
--- | |||
### Meaning | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-image="slides/group_vision.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" --> | |||
When your actions have positive impact on others,<br /> | |||
@@ -100,23 +113,12 @@ it gives them a deeper meaning.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
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### Personal vision | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-image="slides/group_vision.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" --> | |||
How we'd like to spend our limited time.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- activities we'd like to be doing<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- milestones we'd like to pass<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- journey-based internal motivation<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
-V- | |||
### Group vision | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-image="slides/group_vision.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.2" --> | |||
Cooperation of individual visions.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- it boosts the entire group <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- as well as one's own potential <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- working together helps the group <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- it also boosts one's own potential <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
> The whole is greater than the sum of its parts. | |||
<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
@@ -147,16 +149,12 @@ What gets out of bed in the morning?<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
### Personal SWOT | |||
<div class="flex-container flex-wrap flex-table flex-table-2"> | |||
<div><h4>S</h4>Strengths</div><!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
<div><h4>W</h4>Weaknesses</div><!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
<div><h4>O</h4>Opportunities</div><!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
<div><h4>T</h4>Threats</div><!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
<div><h4>S</h4>Strengths</div> | |||
<div><h4>W</h4>Weaknesses</div> | |||
<div><h4>O</h4>Opportunities</div> | |||
<div><h4>T</h4>Threats</div> | |||
</div> | |||
-V- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" --> | |||
Time to reflect on yourself! | |||
-V- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" --> | |||
#### Strengths | |||
@@ -201,47 +199,49 @@ These can be improved, but don't devote too much time to it. <!-- .element: clas | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
#### Strengths | |||
- life-long programming experience, love building useful solutions | |||
- attention to detail, carefulness, looking for perfection; love creating nice and clean software | |||
- persevering problem solver; like to explore and solve mysteries in tech | |||
- life-long programming experience | |||
- perfectionist who loves creating nice and clean software | |||
- persevering problem solver, especially with mysteries in tech | |||
- open-minded and attentive listener | |||
-V- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
#### Weaknesses | |||
- introverted, social interactions are taxing | |||
- lacking in open confrontation, group arguments | |||
- cautious in opinions, not an 'influencer' | |||
- cautious in opinions | |||
I spent way too much time fighting my social skills.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
#### Opportunities | |||
- switch jobs for | |||
- better fitting role - SW developer? | |||
- switch jobs for... | |||
- better fitting role (SW developer) | |||
- higher pay | |||
- different tech stack | |||
- getting back to distributed systems | |||
- contribute to an open source project | |||
- use college degree (distributed systems) | |||
- build specific expertise, get exposure | |||
- share knowledge through talks and blog | |||
- contribute to the state-of-the-art | |||
- build specific expertise on one topic | |||
- get more exposure, share knowledge through talks and blog | |||
- ... | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
#### Threats | |||
- changed role: boring / stressful / annoying | |||
- changed job: | |||
- low pay / annoying co-workers / toxic workplace / long commute | |||
- changed role or job | |||
- boring / stressful / annoying | |||
- annoying co-workers / toxic workplace | |||
- lower pay / long commute | |||
- having to use Windows | |||
- more exposure - personal attacks | |||
- more exposure leading to personal attacks | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
#### My Observations | |||
- my SWOT felt misaligned with the current career (people management)<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- my SWOT felt misaligned with the current career (coding vs. people management)<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- Threats already applied to the current situation<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
Change was desirable and not even that risky.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
Change was apparently needed + low risk.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
--- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" --> | |||
@@ -255,11 +255,10 @@ Change was desirable and not even that risky.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
### My Achievements | |||
- finished college with a cool master's thesis | |||
- became a dev team leader | |||
- self-hosting the services I use via VPS | |||
- finished college, wrote a cool master's thesis | |||
- became a team leader | |||
- self-hosting my services via VPS | |||
- extracted ERP legacy tax functionality via a strategy pattern | |||
- built and coded a split keyboard | |||
- learned to type using the Workman layout | |||
- ... | |||
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Finding a beta version is easier<br />so you won't procrastinate to start!<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
-V- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" --> | |||
#### Answer these... | |||
1. Favorite quote/idea that resonates? | |||
2. Life values? | |||
3. Fulfilling activities? | |||
4. Meaningful activities? | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
### My Beta-Vision | |||
@@ -346,18 +336,11 @@ Finding a beta version is easier<br />so you won't procrastinate to start!<!-- . | |||
### Final Personal Vision | |||
<p> | |||
A few paragraphs of what you want to be doing, | |||
<br> | |||
taking into account the analysis from the previous steps. | |||
A few paragraphs of what you want to be doing. | |||
</p> | |||
<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
### My Final Vision | |||
WIP | |||
--- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" --> | |||
### Act Now! | |||
@@ -386,4 +369,4 @@ Starting small is fine, as long as you start!<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- to avoid overthinking it<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- to figure out if I need to scale it out<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- I regularly experienced flow, improved my mood, raised my skills and really enjoyed doing it.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- having a vision is one thing, but acting on it is also essential<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
- having a vision for your life is nice, but acting on it is essential<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> |
@@ -8,22 +8,6 @@ Aligning our assumptions with reality. | |||
--- | |||
### Real world | |||
is complex and ever-changing. | |||
### Mental model <!-- .element: class="fragment" data-fragment-index="2" --> | |||
is our understanding of the world and its rules. <!-- .element: class="fragment" data-fragment-index="2" --> | |||
-V- | |||
Mental models have varying levels of *objectivity*, | |||
i.e. how much they correspond to reality. | |||
--- | |||
### Dunning-Kruger effect | |||
is a cognitive bias<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
@@ -59,7 +43,6 @@ overestimate their abilities.<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
- check your facts, use reliable sources<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
- question your intuition<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
- seek external feedback<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
- search for both proof and disproof of facts<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/outcomes.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" --> | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#033" --> | |||
Flow brings outcomes and they keep us going: | |||
Daily meaningful activities | |||
using skills you already have | |||
gets you into flow. | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/outcomes.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" --> | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#033" --> | |||
Flow frequently brings **outcomes**: | |||
- emotional outcomes (makes us happy) | |||
- material outcomes (fruits of our labour) | |||
- emotional - it makes us happy | |||
- material - fruits of our labour | |||
--- | |||
Outcomes keep us going. | |||
-V- | |||
### But sometimes... | |||
we get derailed by bad mood | |||
@@ -42,17 +28,17 @@ Negativity captures our attention | |||
more than positivity. | |||
Negativity and pessimism reinforce themselves.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
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#### So we stay down | |||
Negative feedback loop may keep us down, | |||
due to the negative feedback loop: | |||
Negativity and pessimism reinforce themselves.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
unproductive, in a bad mood. | |||
-V- | |||
We need **emotional stability** to keep us going. | |||
We need **emotional stability** to keep on going. | |||
--- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/hamster_in_box.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.9" data-transition="slide-in fade-out" --> | |||
@@ -110,6 +96,22 @@ Because it learned it is no use to even try.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
--- | |||
#### Positive Cycle of Flow | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-image="slides/flow_cycle.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" data-transition="slide-in fade-out" --> | |||
1. Do meaningful actions<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
2. Feel good<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
3. Growing skills<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
4. Believe in yourself<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
5. GOTO 1<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" data-background="slides/flow_cycle.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.06" data-transition="slide-out fade-in" --> | |||
My morning routine of flow | |||
definitely helped! | |||
--- | |||
#### How to break out? | |||
--- | |||
@@ -147,21 +149,6 @@ Because it learned it is no use to even try.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> | |||
--- | |||
#### Positive Cycle of Flow | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-image="slides/flow_cycle.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" data-transition="slide-in fade-out" --> | |||
1. Do meaningful actions<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
2. Feel good<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
3. Growing skills<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
4. Believe in yourself<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
5. GOTO 1<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> | |||
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" data-background="slides/flow_cycle.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.06" data-transition="slide-out fade-in" --> | |||
My morning routine of flow | |||
definitely helped! | |||
--- | |||
#### How to orient yourself towards the future? | |||
Personal Vision <!-- .element: class="fragment fade-right" --> | |||
@@ -172,16 +159,12 @@ Personal Vision <!-- .element: class="fragment fade-right" --> | |||
Choice of attitude <!-- .element: class="fragment fade-left" --> | |||
--- | |||
-V- | |||
We are free to choose our reaction to events. | |||
[Viktor Frankl] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" --> | |||
-V- | |||
We choose **how we interpret** our past. | |||
--- | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/choice_of_attitude.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.3" --> | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" --> | |||
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## In this episode... | |||
## What to expect today? | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#033" --> | |||
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@@ -18,38 +18,38 @@ How to stop procrastinating... | |||
--- | |||
## TL;DR | |||
## 4 sections | |||
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#033" --> | |||
-V- | |||
### Motivation | |||
### 1. Motivation | |||
Find a **personal vision** | |||
Finding a **personal vision** | |||
that you want to work towards. | |||
-V- | |||
### Discipline | |||
### 2. Discipline | |||
Build **good habits** | |||
Building **good habits** | |||
to take specific actions | |||
towards your vision. | |||
towards the vision. | |||
-V- | |||
### Outcomes | |||
### 3. Outcomes | |||
Gain **positive results** | |||
Maintaining a **positive attitude** | |||
and keep on going. | |||
to keep on going. | |||
-V- | |||
### Objectivity | |||
### 4. Objectivity | |||
Gather **external feedback** | |||
Gathering **external feedback** | |||
to continue your personal growth. |