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3.0 KiB
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194 lines
3.0 KiB
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## Outcomes
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Daily meaningful activities
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using skills you already have
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gets you into flow.
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Flow frequently brings **outcomes**:
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- emotional outcomes (makes us happy)
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- material outcomes (fruits of our labour)
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Outcomes keep us going.
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### But sometimes...
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we get derailed by bad mood
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- by negative events or emotions around us <!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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- due to our own failing <!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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- by recalling a negative past <!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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and lose our flow.
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Negativity captures our attention
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more than positivity.
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#### So we stay down
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due to the negative feedback loop:
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Negativity and pessimism reinforce themselves.<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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We need **emotional stability** to keep us going.
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### Negativity hinders progress
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#### Hamster in a box
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...
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#### Learned helplessness
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[Martin Seligman] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" -->
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-V-
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#### Baby Elephant Syndrome
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...
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#### Hamster Procrastination Cycle
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1. Do nothing
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2. Have regrets
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3. Doubt yourself
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4. Feel helpless
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5. GOTO 1
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#### How to break out?
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### Time Perspectives
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[Philip Zimbardo] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" -->
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- positive past
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- negative past
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- present
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- future
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<!-- .slide: data-transition="slide-in fade-out" -->
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Focusing on
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- ~~positive past~~
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- **negative past**
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- **present**
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- ~~future~~
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results in a hamster, depressions. <!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
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<!-- .slide: data-transition="fade-in slide-out" -->
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Refocusing on
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- **positive past** <!-- .element: class="fragment highlight-blue" data-fragment-index="2" -->
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- ~~negative past~~ <!-- .element: class="fragment semi-fade-out" data-fragment-index="2" -->
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- ~~present~~
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- **future** <!-- .element: class="fragment highlight-blue" data-fragment-index="1" -->
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breaks out of the hamster. <!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
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#### Positive Cycle of Flow
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1. Do meaningful actions
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2. Feel good
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3. Growing skills
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4. Believe in yourself
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5. GOTO 1
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#### How to orient yourself towards the future?
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Personal Vision <!-- .element: class="fragment fade-right" -->
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#### How to perceive your past positively?
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Choice of attitude <!-- .element: class="fragment fade-left" -->
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We are free to choose our reaction to events.
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[Viktor Frankl] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" -->
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We choose **how we interpret** our past.
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### TOOL: Choice of attitude
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<small>(originally named *Inner-game*; not related to Timothy Gallwey's work)</small>
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Interpreting seemingly *negative events*
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as **neutral** or even **positive**.
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Event → 😟/😐/😀
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<div class="flex-container">
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<div style="width: 50%" class="fragment">
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#### Default:
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Failure → 😟
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</div>
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<div style="width: 50%" class="fragment">
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#### Choice:
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Failure → 😐/😀
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</div>
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</div>
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Micro-habit that can be trained. <!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
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#### Learned optimism
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- by Martin Seligman
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### My Journey
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